2 years ago, when you all said me to go outside and meet women, did you mean cold approaching or was it something else?
Actually was reading my older posts on this account from early 2023 when i was 22. It was a few months before my MBA started. I was mostly in home fresh out of my undergrads and waiting for MBA. I was far more lonely and also shy near women so I used dating apps and Instagram but having no matches on those apps and most girls on Instagram blocked or ghosted me. But when i posted about it, most said me to get rid of the apps and go outside or "just go outside and meet women in real life/person". At the time it felt impossible living in Bangalore in India but did you all mean a cold approach by going outside or something else?
Now at 24, i am actually cold approaching women(both foreign expats and Indian) in cosmopolitan areas of Bangalore like Church Street and UB City mall not with the mindset of only dating but socializing and meeting new people. They don't really go anywhere. Most Indian women are kinda more guarded with strangers so they give dry responses and with foreign women too even if they are more open to conversations, most have been one off convos so far and few shared their Instagram but never followed back. Yeah now MBA is freshly done with only official graduation pending and I am in job searching mode so unable to meet women in a structured way. So what did you all mean at the time when you said go outside?
Now at 24, i am actually cold approaching women(both foreign expats and Indian) in cosmopolitan areas of Bangalore like Church Street and UB City mall not with the mindset of only dating but socializing and meeting new people. They don't really go anywhere. Most Indian women are kinda more guarded with strangers so they give dry responses and with foreign women too even if they are more open to conversations, most have been one off convos so far and few shared their Instagram but never followed back. Yeah now MBA is freshly done with only official graduation pending and I am in job searching mode so unable to meet women in a structured way. So what did you all mean at the time when you said go outside?
22-25, M