Why is it that when I'm at the edge of a complete breakdown, that's when everybody I've asked for help wants to suddenly help me??

I never ask anybody for shit becuse I've always done it on my own. Now that I'm at rock bottom, solutions are coming at me from all angles??

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Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F

Honestly, sometimes people don't realize we need anything.
And if we ask in a way that doesn't sound urgent, then some assume we can handle the situation, or someone else could help.
When they see you struggling to a degree that cannot be ignored, then they help you. I am not sure they are bad people; if they were, they would not help even then.