Why is it that when I'm at the edge of a complete breakdown, that's when everybody I've asked for help wants to suddenly help me??

I never ask anybody for shit becuse I've always done it on my own. Now that I'm at rock bottom, solutions are coming at me from all angles??

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friendlykinkster · 56-60, M

Hero complex. Nobody wants to help you unless you are helpless on your own. They can swoop in and rescue you. Either you take their advice and your world is saved and you ignore their advice and 'get what you deserve' in their eyes.