Why the hell do I get ghosted so much on Instagram? Is this an Indian woman thing honestly?
So i am 24 and in this horrible limbo/rut phase when i am graduating my MBA so no campus classes and still searching for a job or internship and mostly in home living with parents. Before coming into this, I live in Bangalore in India and its normal to live with parents in India in our 20s too but its getting frustrating. I am unable to meet people much. I am messaging women from my campus who are my juniors on Instagram and Linkedin but but many of give dry replies or even ghosts. I went to my campus almost 2 weeks ago and socialized with many of them but still. My Instagram has been literally dead since yesterday.
Last week i had great chats with many women from my MBA and other MBA campuses whom I dmed and also young professionals but suddenly since yesterday or even Sunday its dead silence. My message is left on sent. They didnt unfollow or block but no reply at all. Its not just 1 or 2 women who does it but literally 95+%(maybe even 99%) of them who does the same to me on Instagram. How will i even ask them out for a simple hangout if they just give dry one word replies or give delayed responses or even ghosts suddenly despite the chats being fully appropriate. Most 20 something Indian women are flakey.
I am even cold approaching women in Coffee shops, brewpubs and bookstores and even luxurious mall of Bangalore but the Indian women give dry responses or the convo doesnt go anywhere. No name exchange or insta exchange. I am freaking 24 and feeling stuck in this phase. I talk to foreign women tho who are expats from Western countries, parts of Europe, Africa and East Asia and they are much more better and I managed to connect on social media with 3 of them but i guess they weren't interested so didnt follow back but idk they are still nice in person and treat me like a human and make me feel less lonely at the moment especially in this rut phase whereas Indian women are just too flakey and reserved and ghosts suddenly
Last week i had great chats with many women from my MBA and other MBA campuses whom I dmed and also young professionals but suddenly since yesterday or even Sunday its dead silence. My message is left on sent. They didnt unfollow or block but no reply at all. Its not just 1 or 2 women who does it but literally 95+%(maybe even 99%) of them who does the same to me on Instagram. How will i even ask them out for a simple hangout if they just give dry one word replies or give delayed responses or even ghosts suddenly despite the chats being fully appropriate. Most 20 something Indian women are flakey.
I am even cold approaching women in Coffee shops, brewpubs and bookstores and even luxurious mall of Bangalore but the Indian women give dry responses or the convo doesnt go anywhere. No name exchange or insta exchange. I am freaking 24 and feeling stuck in this phase. I talk to foreign women tho who are expats from Western countries, parts of Europe, Africa and East Asia and they are much more better and I managed to connect on social media with 3 of them but i guess they weren't interested so didnt follow back but idk they are still nice in person and treat me like a human and make me feel less lonely at the moment especially in this rut phase whereas Indian women are just too flakey and reserved and ghosts suddenly
22-25, M
