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Omg I finally got that German woman's Instagram today. Do you feel it would be fair enough to ask her out for a coffee?

I already shared last week that I met this tall blonde German woman in this Cafe near UB City mall in our city Bangalore, India who was with her friend that day. Today I bumped into her again but she was alone. I initiated conversation with her and we both recognized each other and had an amazing conversation while walking next to each other. She is 21 and I am 24 so its perfect. She is a young professional now living in Bangalore for 2 months so far but she is saying she will most likely return back to Germany after 2-3 weeks. We had a long convo like how her work is going on and I also shared about my limbo phase of graduating MBA and searching for a job and she too understands how frustrating it is. She is taller than me too as I am 5'9-5'10(175-177 cm) and she is definitely 6 ft and it felt crazy walking next to a taller woman and talking. She is gorgeous and I think I got a bit of crush on her as well.

I eventually gathered my courage and politely asked for her Instagram and omg she shared her Insta ID. Like she asked my phone and typed her ID in my Instagram search pane and sent a follow request and then we said okay bye as she was heading to smoke somewhere and I was going for Church St. She didn't follow me back yet tho but if she does follow me back or if we meet again next week, can I ask her for a coffee? She is only here for 2-3 weeks so I definitely want to make the most out of it. It still feels like a dream tho.
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Onryo · 22-25, F
I have over 1600 followers on Instagram and have zero interest in dating any of them, you are reading far too much into it. She didn’t ask for your number, your insta or say anything about wanting to see you again. In fact she made it very clear that she only has a few weeks and then she’s moving back to the other side of the world!
Heroisthebest24 · 22-25, M
@Onryo Your comment is dismissive. This was a big moment for me as I was the lonely bullied kid in school who was too shy to even look at girls. I missed out on my teenage days when it comes to love or even female interactions. I only overcome my shyness last year at 23. Now I am 24 and fully confident to talk with both foreign and Indian women in my age group and even older. I even approached some Indian women who were strangers in a bookstore and coffee shop and also talked with this woman who is from my MBA campus in this metro station and also approached a Dutch woman who is a tourist in our city. I am in a limbo stage where I am basically done with my MBA so no more campus and searching for a job so can't meet people to socialize with so I am going out there socializing in the city.
Onryo · 22-25, F
@Heroisthebest24 even more important you know the truth, a random friendly chat was had, move on and get over it. You over think every interaction to a ridiculous degree, your posts make you sound creepy, the way you talk about women, the way you go hunting for interactions, it’s not normal behaviour.
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