Do u believe a woman should be over a man 💍

Meaning in marriage should she call the shots.
She should control the money.
She doesn't need to cook every day.
Or at all.
She doesn't have to tell her husband what she is doing and where she is going.
She is her own boss
She is and wants to be independent
and not submissive.
She tells him this is just a transaction.
This isn't about love.
Let me be me and you be you.
Hmmmmm.
This seems to be the mindset of the so called
non traditional or modern woman today.
Well let me ask you this question then .
Do you agree. 😂
Best answer wins. ☺