How will this ever work?

My issues with abandonment and intimacy leave me drowning in my anxiety. I let someone see a vulnerable side of me then convince myself they don't care because I always think they're gonna leave anyway. The mind is a confusing place. I'm strong and independent but when it comes to my relationships with other humans I greatly struggle. I got some issues I need to work out because it leaves me in such emotional pain.

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Blessedsoul81 · 41-45, C

[c=#BF0080]*hugs* Its not as bad as you may think honey. The reason is this, you are still opening up rather than being closed off/guarded whiuch makes dealing with this a whole lot easier, even if you feel it isn't <3 Keep being open as you are more likely to learn and seek solutions and answers in dealing with your situations and setbacks. I'm here for you sweetiepie if you need me be <3 😘[/c]

beautyisnature · 31-35, F

Thank you :) it was nice to read that. I just wish I didnt sabotage potential relationships before they happened. My brain just tells me I'll be alone. That's all about my anxiety though.

Blessedsoul81 · 41-45, C

@beautyisnature: [c=#BF0080] *hugs* You can overcome it though and something tells me you will <3[/c]

beautyisnature · 31-35, F

Thank you! I feel like I have someone in my life right now who may teach me that not everyone leaves. When I think negatively about it I remind myself that I am just thinking thoughts and they are not always true. Trying so hard to train my brain after years of pain.

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