Noticing how much dating messes me up is quite something

And this person seemed really stable in comparison to people have I dated.

- I stopped updating my instagram every Thurs
- Am wavering with my market duties (cleaning, social media, website, photography, paperwork etc)
- Have spent less time with my plants and as a result have lost some
- Not sleeping well or restfully
- Trouble eating
- Place is becoming a mess again
- Wreckless spending
- Behind on contract work (websites)
- Don't enjoy going to my bookstore job now because I don't sleep enough and I'm constantly anxious
- Not excited about building my plant business as much as I was

Well. Back to the drawing board. I need to single I think.

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SW-User

I guess you have to assess what you are really hoping to get from a relationship before trying to get into one. You seem to have a pretty full plate of other things to focus on, and you can choose to be alone and also happy. Being alone and being lonely are not the same things.

Otherwise, a relationship is something that can develop into something good on its own time, but you shouldn’t believe that you need to be in one to prove anything to yourself or to anyone else. If it’s causing you more distress than happiness, then something is off, and either it’s not the right person, or it’s not the right time for you.

caccoon · 36-40

@SW-User all very good points. Thank you 💙

I do have a full plate, but it would be nice to have someone to relax and explore with on my free time. But I guess for now that can be the dogs, because they are safe

It probably isn't the right time for me, but I'm glad I did it so that I could learn some new things about myself

SW-User

@caccoon It’s good that you learned something

1490wayb · 56-60, M

AMEN!! i come here for free chats and safesex. real world doesnt work me either

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