Even though he had to cancel our date (for totally legit reasons)

@Notsimilarreally yeah, it's really nice, he seems to be sooo good so far and it's really refreshing

And yes! Wednesday and then Thursday as well cause he is going away for a bit and we need to see each other ahhhh!! So now we're maybe gonna do two dinners in a row with a hike 🥰

@caccoon he sounds great, like taking you on the walk to see carnivorous plants and knowing all the names. I mean hello. Talk about similar interests. Hope the dates are super fun this week. Sucks to get ready and all hyped then cancelled on but it does happen. Happy for you 😊

@Notsimilarreally thank you!!

And yeah he is a biologist and specifically a plant guy so it's very exciting. But then he says *I'M* knowledgeable and I'm like okay cute science guy that knows literally every plant around here

He's very cool and we have the same politics and he's just a sweet person and so gentle 🥰🥰

And yeah! It sucks but it does happen for sure

@caccoon ahhh sounds perfect. 🤩

@Notsimilarreally girl how are you doing though 🥺

@caccoon idk what good news I was talking about 😂

@Notsimilarreally I'm so sorry. That's a really tough situation

Have you guys ever tried any kind of couples therapy?

Either way, whatever you decide, I hope it is what is best for you. Your son will have the best chance for a good childhood if you are happy! 💙

@caccoon thanks 🧡 we did therapy for a bit. The guy was not good. The one we did like didn’t have room for regulars. We should try again. Good reminder, thank you. Everything is just a whirlwind of emotion right now and we certainly aren’t thinking of little things like that at the moment…

@Notsimilarreally relationships are difficult and intense. Just go slow, perhaps you can work through things together

But perhaps, as it sometimes hurts to realize, they are not the right person for you 💙💙

I'm sorry you're going through this