My nephew, he did something so horrific i cant even bring myself to say it. My poor sister, i just cannot imagine what she's gone through. She buried her other son. Being on the outside showing support and being there for her is one thing , but actually having a child whose committed a heinous crime is something totally different. I'm a mother and i just cannot imagine one of my girls doing something like this. You see people on tv , on the news, the aftermath etc..but you never see how their parents were affected by their actions. But i think about it often. It made me realize that in the end no matter how a person was raised, how good of a life they've had etc...their actions, once they become an adult is all on them. They made a conscious decision to be evil and worthless.