So is approaching the foreign women in this mall the only option now? What do you feel?
In my previous post, I shared about this girl in my internship who gave her number but someone already replied me not to get involved into relationships or even friendships in a workplace even though we are both interns in a young startup and she is 21-22 and I am 24 and we arent even in the same team and we in completely different floors and I only socialize with the female interns at breaks and not during break hours. But seeing that person's comment and several other comments online about workplace friendships and dating makes me feel as if I have no options.
At 24, i wanna socialize more and our 20s are for this. My internship is the only place i am able to meet and socialize with girls in person and as its a young startup, everyone is in their 20s so in my age group. I am almost done with my grad school(MBA) as i am in final semester and will graduate by June or July 2025. I spent my teenage years by getting bullied and isolated and being extremely shy near girls so missed out in my teenage years with 0 female interactions. Also I live in Bangalore in India and its hard to meet women as Indian women are reserved and cautious and usually roam around with their friends circle or something and India is way too collectivist.
Dating apps arent giving me matches either. I don't get too much time as my internship work hours are for 9 hours and for 6 days with just a week off in their of the week days. Other than my internship I only socialize with foreign women in this luxurious mall UB City who are expats and tourists as Bangalore is a major IT hub and a Metropolitan city. Its far easier to approach these foreign women especially the Westerners as they are more individualistic than Indian women. I had some good conversations with those women but they are only one time conversations and I chicken out when it comes to asking their Instagram or number. Plus I would prefer to ask Instagram of an expat rather than short term tourist plus I dont even know whether they are single. So it can be a hit and miss with them. Even UB City visits arent as frequent for me due to my hectic internship schedule. I wont mind dating a woman of any race whether she is Indian or white or east Asian but my choices are limited. Bars and clubs arent for me as I dont drink so my internship is the only place where I can regularly socialize with girls. What do you feel?
At 24, i wanna socialize more and our 20s are for this. My internship is the only place i am able to meet and socialize with girls in person and as its a young startup, everyone is in their 20s so in my age group. I am almost done with my grad school(MBA) as i am in final semester and will graduate by June or July 2025. I spent my teenage years by getting bullied and isolated and being extremely shy near girls so missed out in my teenage years with 0 female interactions. Also I live in Bangalore in India and its hard to meet women as Indian women are reserved and cautious and usually roam around with their friends circle or something and India is way too collectivist.
Dating apps arent giving me matches either. I don't get too much time as my internship work hours are for 9 hours and for 6 days with just a week off in their of the week days. Other than my internship I only socialize with foreign women in this luxurious mall UB City who are expats and tourists as Bangalore is a major IT hub and a Metropolitan city. Its far easier to approach these foreign women especially the Westerners as they are more individualistic than Indian women. I had some good conversations with those women but they are only one time conversations and I chicken out when it comes to asking their Instagram or number. Plus I would prefer to ask Instagram of an expat rather than short term tourist plus I dont even know whether they are single. So it can be a hit and miss with them. Even UB City visits arent as frequent for me due to my hectic internship schedule. I wont mind dating a woman of any race whether she is Indian or white or east Asian but my choices are limited. Bars and clubs arent for me as I dont drink so my internship is the only place where I can regularly socialize with girls. What do you feel?
22-25, M