I feel that I totally crave attention

Yet doing it has brought me so much negativity in my life, I suppose it is the reason I used to bully people, wanting to be the centre of attention. I still really want that, and want to be really popular again. Does anyone else feel like this? Will I always feel like this?

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shakemeup · 36-40

Don't know how to help you with that. When I was 13, I wanted to be popular and I was for about a month. I freaking hated it. Way too exhausting to keep up.

Maybe prioritize being popular and a leader with close friends and being the glue that keeps and facilitates the friendship and respect among each other going strong. That's a good kind of popularity, rather then the kind of person that is trying to get the limelight. Be the person you want other people to aspire to be, you know? That's a healthier kind of attention for yourself because it'll promote you to be good, you know?

Strongtea · 22-25, M

Thankyou for that, it gives me lots to think about, but I think you’re right. 😊@shakemeup