Deadbeat men

I wanted to discuss the psychology behind men who are cold and uncaring in their original relationships only to become a model dad/husband to the 2nd family.
I’ve seen it among my relatives. Claims to be too Muslim to sit together on the 24th yet is present at every holiday with the seconds. It’s an interesting phenomenon. Are they just a piece of shit

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robertsnj · 56-60, M

I dont have any kids which makes it easier as a guy to dig into the question. I think it is a great question and somewhat wonder if it ROI kinda thought process. Meaning the guy feels he can't get as much in return with the first mother in terms of sex or bonding as a family with the kids but can in the second family

there doesn't seem to be any academic research on the topic (that i could find) other than from think tanks that have a preconceived agenda and thus it muddies their collected and curiated data.

MarineBob · 56-60, M

First one was just a easy lay

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SomeMichGuy · M

@NinaCherry Agreed, but most people are irrational.

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