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A women keep blaming everything on me , even her own mistakes.

And telling trash about me to people and trying to turn people against me. What can i do? She lost her son so they are sympathetic towards her and doesn't acknowledge her mistakes and let her say and do what she wants. They tell me just forgive her bcuz she is frustrated. She keeps causing problems in my life, saying anything and everything to me without considering my feelings and doing things to make my life harder. When i lash out at her people think i am bad, she often goes out of her way just to get me mad!
being · 36-40, F
Take as much distance from her as possible and keep yourself safe please... I'm sorry, the way you describe it sounds like she's out of her mind right now and you can't do much other than stay away from her
being · 36-40, F
@sahi81 what comes next ? Confront her ? I would avoid that especially as the situation is as you explain, she's carrying enough rage right now, you don't want it thrown upon you. I'm sorry, I have had a somewhat similar experience to relate to, long time ago...
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@being iidk , if i call out on her mistakes, it only escalating.
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@being i am trying to call out on her actions and express how it effected me and made me feel, she seems to not care at all but some people around me were nice to me when i expressed my feelings.

Many people still defend her mistakes and put all blame on me to not hurt her . Those people seem bad though in other areas of life when i get to know them, not just to me.They dunno how to treat women or animals good, they feel self-important. I am ignoring them along with her.
Sorry that's annoying.. i hope she stops harassing and targeting you 😳
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@SStarfish i too have my own share of mistakes when arguing with her and i wasn't perfect, i was also ignorant and mean sometimes but atleast i am trying to acknowledge my mistakes and trying to be better, but i don't think "everything" is my mistake like she says.

She plucks all my flaws and mistakes and blames everything on me. I never saw her acknowledge her side mistakes in our argument and also from her previous failed marriage, she doesn't think she did anything wrong, she thinks she did everything right and still messed up. She doesn't seem to like being at wrong at anything and make things right.
@sahi81 oh well people can be stubborn and angry and mad i guess... not everyone is how they should be.. unfortunately.. hopefully she changes her ways and gives you a break 🙂
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@SStarfish tired of hoping for that. Rn i can only change the kind of people i hang out with and my routes to avoid her.

 
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