A woman keep blaming everything on me , even her own mistakes.

And telling trash about me to people and trying to turn people against me. What can i do? She lost her son so they are sympathetic towards her and doesn't acknowledge her mistakes and let her say and do what she wants. They tell me just forgive her bcuz she is frustrated. She keeps causing problems in my life, saying anything and everything to me without considering my feelings and doing things to make my life harder. When i lash out at her people think i am bad, she often goes out of her way just to get me mad! And also her words,actions, beahvior and everything she does is very mean and hurtful.

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YoMomma ·

Sorry that's annoying.. i hope she stops harassing and targeting you 😳

sahi81 · 26-30, F

@YoMomma yes very annoying ! I am avoiding her and all her supporters . I am trying to surround myself with better people.

YoMomma ·

@sahi81 yeah i dont blame you..

sahi81 · 26-30, F

@YoMomma i too have my own share of mistakes when arguing with her and i wasn't perfect, i was also ignorant and mean sometimes but atleast i am trying to acknowledge my mistakes and trying to be better, but i don't think "everything" is my mistake like she says.

She plucks all my flaws and mistakes and blames everything on me. I never saw her acknowledge her side mistakes in our argument and also from her previous failed marriage, she doesn't think she did anything wrong, she thinks she did everything right and still messed up. She doesn't seem to like being at wrong at anything and make things right.

YoMomma ·

@sahi81 oh well people can be stubborn and angry and mad i guess... not everyone is how they should be.. unfortunately.. hopefully she changes her ways and gives you a break 🙂

sahi81 · 26-30, F

@YoMomma tired of hoping for that. Rn i can only change the kind of people i hang out with and my routes to avoid her.