Woud you rather be underestimated or overestimated ?

@in10RjFox Very common

@Umile yeah . Because common sense is quite rare these days.

@in10RjFox common sense is not so common.

True.

But, we kind of need to look at it from their ... vantage point.

Sometimes, when dealing with a person, I can sort of understand why they think the way they do.

@Umile Yes. But that's when we need to act in a way to make them feel that they are being estimated and not let them estimate is .. 😀😀

Actually what we are thinking is what they are thinking. Unfortunately we think that the other is estimating us, when they too are thinking how we are estimating or judging them. 😀

That's what makes people say
* You are looking good today
* You are late
* What happened to you?

to deflect and make them focus on themselves 😀😀😀