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Today has been my saddest day 😭😭. Why the hell do i get hurt so much?

In my previous posts, I have shared how this girl Dimple in my MBA unfollowed me on Instagram a week ago. It was indeed intentional of her and her avoidance. Today I met her in person and she told it on my face that she doesnt wanna talk with me anymore. I literally asked her what did I do and she said "You didnt do anything. Its my personal choice". I got completely broken 😢😭and sad and she was really cold and got on her cab and went off. Idk what went wrong. We had normal conversations in person. She is my junior btw in her 1st year of MBA and I just entered 2nd year a month ago. She is 22 and I am 23. We were getting along really well at the starting having longer conversations.

In between there were moments when our conversations were short and she would say her friends are waiting or something like that but our next conversations were again longer but idk what happened after i went to my hometown she suddenly unfollowed me. And today she literally said me she doesnt wanna talk to me anymore. I am so sad that tears came down my eyes. Why did she become so cold towards me without much reason? Yeah its true that i tried to talk to her whenever i saw her so maybe she felt overwhelmed and I am recently socializing with girls after years of being shy near them but i still respected her whenever she said she has friends waiting for her and stuffs. This was probably my most hurtful situation with a girl worse than any previous rejections or ghosting. I am completely down now 😭😭
Falakata! Falakata!
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SophSmiles · 22-25, F
The fact you cried and have been so over the top about it I think she did the right thing. That’s not a normal response to the level of friendship/acquaintance that you had. Clearly you thought it meant a lot more than she did and she probably thought it best to completely end it and be cold because just having a casual chat wasn’t working and you were too much
Heroisthebest23 · 22-25, M
@SophSmiles i just get attached easily to any girl because I am 23 and never had a girlfriend and have had little to no female interactions for many years due to shyness and only recently at 23 i am talking with girls in person
Nitedoc · 51-55, M
So you're a late bloomer. Keep talking to girls in person and you'll find some who do like you.
Heroisthebest23 · 22-25, M
@Nitedoc Yes I am. Only recently at 23 I am talking with girls but what happened today with Dimple has made me more cautious about introvert girls. I am talking with other girls in our University too but the conversations are mostly short limited to just Hi and how are you and maybe some of our MBA related stuffs and it ends as I run out of topics or just feel nervous or she gets accompanied by her friends. My male friend can talk much longer with girls and have a continuous conversation with them as he is an extrovert and have had more female interactions than me.
Nitedoc · 51-55, M
@Heroisthebest23 Keep doing it. It gets easier. Practice makes perfect.

 
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