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The weird adventures in the hostel keep on going..

I know the only weird one here is me. Because despite the odds I keep on staying here.

Once more the drunken and wasted(seems like hashish) owner of the hostel got into my dormitory and sat at the bed next to me.
I've hung a few clothing items at the next bed and he told me that there're more people coming. I'd seen a few men outside before and thought, oh let's see what tonight. So I remove the clothes from the bed next to me and take everything around my bed.

So the drunken guy is here and not moving, weird. He tells me he's thinking how to arrange other people so I will be comfortable. I ask him, how many are they ? He says 6 people. The dormitory has a capacity of 6 beds. I tell him, I can go to a single room and they can come here. And then he says oh no I was just joking.
Wtf man.

He asks, why did I move my clothes. I tell him, I paid for one bed, I'm aware how dormitories work, I've been to other dormitories too and people come and go.

He stood up kinda mad and went out.
Tf man.

I'm messaging through Couchsurfing and hopefully I'll move tomorrow. It's getting bit too far..
Make sure you keep yourself safe. doesnt sound you feel safe where you are
being · 36-40, F
@Ozymandiaz yes. I'm moving tomorrow morning.
being · 36-40, F
Update 3
He comes again at the bed
He says I'm going to sleep whenever I want to sleep
So here he is. I'm not really scared.
More like disturbed and amused watching the whole performance

Bit alert too
Omg, I could never fall asleep in a room with five strangers in it 🙀. Please, stay away from mixed dormitories.
being · 36-40, F
@truegen it was never like this one. Usually there're tourists.. but in this one there're are locals who find a cheap place to sleep.

It's alright, in the end I feel like I am creating the problem by staying here. I shouldn't be feeling like that. I am taking a weird kind of responsibility right now. I am confused.
But I'm strong too, I'll be okay and remove myself tomorrow.
I've been staying here for a week already. It's about time to be moving on.
@being I get an impression that you tend to dwell excessively on moral aspects while neglecting basic physical safety.

Maybe pretend you've got work to do and tell him in a firm voice you need to be left alone?
being · 36-40, F
Update 4
Lights are off and he once more got out the room. I don't feel comfortable in his presence, let aside he put on a ton of perfume.
It's disturbing, the strong smell before sleeping. And him moving stressfully around.
It's not nice for me really, makes me feel awkward.
I'm turning my attention off him now and I'll try to solely focus on myself, go brush my teeth and come back and try to sleep...
Neoerectus · M
If part of Hostelling International, report it to them.
Babaloo64 · 41-45, M
being · 36-40, F
@Babaloo64 thank you. My boundaries need be checked but then life is so dynamic..
Babaloo64 · 41-45, M
@being life is indeed very dynamic..
JohnnyNoir · 56-60, M
Where is this? Europe I'm guessing
being · 36-40, F
@JohnnyNoir it's Cambodia. It could be anywhere where you pay 2,5$ for a mixed dormitory though. But it's been alright in the end.
JohnnyNoir · 56-60, M
@being that's a bucket list trip for me
being · 36-40, F
@JohnnyNoir it's worth it really. Of the few places still left relatively authentic in SE Asia..
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Degbeme · 70-79, M
@being Please please be safe.
being · 36-40, F
@Degbeme thank you... I'm not much comfortable. He tried to talk to me over and over but I'm not being responsive.
Beds are too close too
It's alright, there's the Japanese guy next bed too , if it were just the two of us would have been more weird.

The thing is he said he doesn't trust the other men who moved in here and he's staying here in order to protect me. I can feel for the guy, living his fairytale in his head perhaps, but I'm really out of here, this is crossing a limit.
being · 36-40, F
@being I guess I am what's creating the disturbance here, cheap dormitories and solo females are a mismatch. It's alright, I'm aware.

 
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