Happy birthday . I remember a while back you talked about being lonely but more in the context of dating.
I am sorry for your pain. What is the socializatoin plan? I wish woman once told me "find your tribe" people who share your hobbies passions, interests. Is that doable? Do you have a couple of Facebook groups or local groups that share a hobby with you?
I thinnk I remember you are Christian. What do yall do at church groups? Is there socialization there? I hope you find a plan that works for you and I am sorry you had a lonely day on your bday . Hope you seperation isn't too burdonsome.