I'm sorry if I have hurt you in any way...

I've had my bad moments. Or maybe I got you triggered. Maybe you were disrespectful and I fought back. Perhaps I was confused about what you meant and I thought I got it right. Maybe you were flirting and I couldn't handle it. Or was I flirting and you couldn't. Or there was a detail I didn't pay attention because I was in a rush. Perhaps you sent me a message and I never replied. I stopped replying halfway our discussion and forgot about it. Maybe you were in pain and I made a bad joke. Or I said too much. Or perhaps, I didn't accept you as you are but kept on making suggestions as to what to change so I can love you, what to correct.

Taking a moment to pause ..
I'm so sorry. Please forgive me and know, it wasn't about you.