Should I give her a chance or should I not trust her again?
Last year Feb, I started chatting with this girl named Amala on Instagram when she was 20 and i was 22. Now she is 21 and I am 23 and we were in the same school during high school but we never really interacted much in school days. She graduated 8-9 months as her bachelors degree was for 3 years and I also graduated at same time as her and she is pursuing her masters now and I am also gonna pursue MBA now. Last year while chatting with her, we were often getting flirty and she was really sweet sending me hugs and many more and I got really attached to her and thought maybe she is the one and i used to get butterflies thinking about her and i was genuinely in love with her but suddenly one day she told she was in a relationship and hearing that I cried a lot and even sent her crying emojis saying how much I liked her. But she was sweet and sent me hugs and made my mood better and we still continued chatting and surprisingly she was still flirting with me sending me hugs.
But after few months, her replies got slower and in July 2023, she unfollowed me. I asked her what happened and she said her parents saw our chats and thought we were in relationship so they told her to stop messaging me so she said only unfollowed me for few days. But suddenly after few days I saw she literally blocked me and I was super upset and confused and don't know what went wrong. Then months passed and after this other girl Sharanya 3 weeks ago with whom I got attached too ghosted me, she kinda reminded me of Amala as she too ghosted me for no reason. So i opened the chats of Amala to read our old texts and saw that Amala unblocked me. I messaged her about it and she apologized saying she was going through a lot so she had to block me but now she is doing better. So we have been chatting again but not regularly. I still sent her a hug and she sent hug back but idk whether to continue chatting with her and trust her again like before or not. Anyways i am still kinda sad about Sharanya who ghosted me and I am mainly having crush on this girl Akankshya in the classes where I go so I am mainly into my current crush so I wouldnt expect Amala to be my girlfriend or something now. What do you feel?
But after few months, her replies got slower and in July 2023, she unfollowed me. I asked her what happened and she said her parents saw our chats and thought we were in relationship so they told her to stop messaging me so she said only unfollowed me for few days. But suddenly after few days I saw she literally blocked me and I was super upset and confused and don't know what went wrong. Then months passed and after this other girl Sharanya 3 weeks ago with whom I got attached too ghosted me, she kinda reminded me of Amala as she too ghosted me for no reason. So i opened the chats of Amala to read our old texts and saw that Amala unblocked me. I messaged her about it and she apologized saying she was going through a lot so she had to block me but now she is doing better. So we have been chatting again but not regularly. I still sent her a hug and she sent hug back but idk whether to continue chatting with her and trust her again like before or not. Anyways i am still kinda sad about Sharanya who ghosted me and I am mainly having crush on this girl Akankshya in the classes where I go so I am mainly into my current crush so I wouldnt expect Amala to be my girlfriend or something now. What do you feel?
22-25, M
