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Was i really a loser for being shy to talk to them or did I do the right thing? How can I approach them next time?

Today while going for the classes, I saw some 3 foreign country women. I live in Bangalore in India which is a big metropolitan city, so foreigners come here as expats for working or for conferences. The area where I go for classes is an IT area. I saw 3 beautiful white foreigners who looked in their 20s or maybe in their 30s.

I am 23 and i think they are somewhere in the 26-35 age range and they are probably from an European country or maybe even American but idk. I saw of 3 of them separately. One of them was a blonde and then another one few minutes later and then the 3rd one was the hottest of them all and she was wearing an off shoulder dress. I really really wanted to talk with either of them but i was shy.

They were having earphones in their ears. I was scared that they might feel uncomfortable if I tried to talk to them. Plus i see Indian men having bad reputation among Western women. I didnt even know as an introvert how to initiate a conversion with them. They are maybe expats working somewhere there or maybe came to India for few days. Idk whether i will see them again on Monday. Did i do the right thing by not talking to them? What should i say them on Monday again?
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Just say hi! The embarrasment will last a few minutes if it works, but you'll get new friends!
hunkalove · 70-79, M
You just have to take a chance. Even if you try 10 times and get rejected 9 times that one success is better than never trying.
Heroisthebest24 · 22-25, M
@hunkalove But the problem is we are strangers so how to approach them?
hunkalove · 70-79, M
@Heroisthebest24 Say hi and ask if they are new here. If they are foreigners they will probably appreciate that you speak English. Ask where they are from and say you always wanted to go there. Anything you could have in common. Even if it’s just something about how much you like their shoes or hat.

 
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