Have you ever lost respect for someone instantly.

Yes, she lied about having COVID to go on vacay. What's worse she happily told me, like I'm supposed to champion her choice. That means she's leaving 6 vulnerable old people alone or down carer staff, she's my sister in law and I've lost total respect for her. Then on Christmas morning she announced to me again looking for approval she's going to have sciatica so she can go away again till new years! Seriously wanted to slap her in the face with a wet fish!