Have you ever been able to mend a heart that you had broken before?? If yes, how easy was it ??

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InquisitiveMind · 46-50, M

One of the hardest things I’ve ever done… though it means that every relationship thereafter I haven’t quite given absolutely everything… there’s a tiny piece of my heart I keep to myself to avoid the excruciating pain of ultimate heartbreak…

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Soossie

@InquisitiveMind

Very wise …

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InquisitiveMind · 46-50, M

@Soossie the wisest knowledge is often borne out of the hardest experiences…

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Soossie

@InquisitiveMind

Very true …

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PhoenixPhail · M

@Soossie I think it's a great metaphor for how one can mend a broken heart ...and how much more valuable the heart will be, once mended. ❤️

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Soossie

@PhoenixPhail

We get wiser, stronger, and more understanding every time when our heart breaks and get mended …

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PhoenixPhail · M

@Soossie Well, that's the idea, anyway... 😊 🫂

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SW-User

You can never mend a heart perfectly, no matter how hard you try. Until someone else comes along with the right kind of way to piece it together again :)

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Soossie

@SW-User

I think it’s possible if one tries to understand their wrong doing and never repeat it again …

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SW-User

Yes, bc he knew my toxic behaviour was a result of my past and this made me trust him enough to respond to his love

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Soossie

@SW-User

That’s great …. A man like him is worth a woman’s love …

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SW-User

@Soossie he is my hero 🤩❤️

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Bklynbadboy12 · 31-35, M

Yes i have but even though she forgave me i still haven't forgiven myself

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Soossie

@Bklynbadboy12

I can understand … I hope that you will be able to forgive yourself but never forget the experience so that you won’t do it to them again …

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DrWatson · 70-79, M

No,but I have become very good friends with someone whose heart I broke when we were both young.

There was a fifty year gap!

And I can't really take credit for the mending.

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Soossie

@DrWatson

I guess you both realized that there were a wonderful friendship in all that which needed to continue …

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DrWatson · 70-79, M

@Soossie Exactly. We have struck up an amazing friendship, and my wife is friends with her too.

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Soossie

@DrWatson

How wonderful … 🤗🤗

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Pfuzylogic · M

I had an off and on relationship for 6 years while I was in the Navy. I adjusted my personal boundaries to match our interactions. In the end I felt I had a good control of my emotion.

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Soossie

@Pfuzylogic

Well done dear Pfuzy … Hope they felt the same too ..

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Pfuzylogic · M

@Soossie They stayed consistent. I realized ii had to quit being so idealistic.

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PoeticPlay · 56-60, M

The hardest part is healing of ones self first.

Then you will gain the knowledge and have the ability to use the wisdom in order to become beloved once more.

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Soossie

@PoeticPlay

Healing of heart is important … it won’t happen completely if only one heart heals but the other won’t …

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PoeticPlay · 56-60, M

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YourMomsSecretCrush · M

Yes. It wasn’t easy. We ended up splitting up for good eventually though. We were great together at times but at times we were toxic for each other.

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Soossie

@YourMomsSecretCrush

Like all relationships … sometimes managing a relationship doesn’t seem to be easy …. 🤗🤗

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lonelyloner · 31-35, F

nope never really till date after almost 16 years but now am careful about emotion and careless about broken heart

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Soossie

@lonelyloner

Never too late to learn and become careful about hurting others .. We all do that ..

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Reflection2 · M

I don't know.

With that, one always lose a part, never to be retrieved. Those, who does, are the luckiest one.

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Soossie

@Reflection2

It takes time, lots of love, patience, and lots of understanding ….

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Livingwell · 61-69, M

No. I have not been successful doing so for someone else. I have mended my heart and grew love again.

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Soossie

@Livingwell

I feel good for you and I hope that one day every broken heart gets mended … 🤗🤗

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Stillwaiting · M

Nope. Mine was broke too. Tried like hell .. but it takes two willing to admit to their part in it and make changes.

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Soossie

@Stillwaiting

I agree …. It takes two to tango in every event and cases of relationships …

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NankerPhelge · 61-69, M

That's about as easy as picking up the Rock of Gibraltar and lobbing it all the way to Neptune.

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Soossie

@NankerPhelge

Lol… Almost impossible …. Almost 😂

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SW-User

It's a cooperation that gets the work of healing done, between the two involved.

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Soossie

@SW-User

Exactly … very well said ….

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Coldplay · 61-69, M

I don’t think you can do it quickly.

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Coldplay · 61-69, M

@Soossie I think possible, but very difficult.

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Soossie

@Coldplay

Very true … But I doubt that you could ever break anyones heart …

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Coldplay · 61-69, M

@Soossie I sure hope not. And I am likewise sure you couldn’t either.

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antonioioio · 70-79, M

The only heart that was ever broken was my own and I learned to fix it 😊

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Soossie

@antonioioio

Aww!! Hugs 🤗🤗

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antonioioio · 70-79, M

@Soossie hugs back 🤗🤗🤗
To a special lady 🌹

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SW-User

Never broken a heart.

Got mine broken, I don't think I want to speak to that person ever again until the time everything feels worthless.

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Soossie

@SW-User

I’m so very sorry to hear … I hope that your heart will feel happy again …

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pearllederman · 61-69, F

maybe but i cant remember exactly what happened

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Soossie

@pearllederman

Aww!!! That’s quite alright … 🤗🌹❤️🥰

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PoorSissy · 46-50

It was mended but only time did that for her.

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Soossie

@PoorSissy

I can understand …

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HowtoDestroyAngels · 46-50, M

Yes. It took a fair amount of time.

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Soossie

@HowtoDestroyAngels

It usually does … but I’m glad that you made it up to them …

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Starcrossed · 41-45, F

Yes, it too a long long time.

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Soossie

@Starcrossed

It usually does … and I’m glad that you made it up to them …

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NaughtyPickle · M

It as my it just takes time

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Soossie

@NaughtyPickle

It takes time for every broken heart to mend …

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BittersweetPotato · 31-35, F

I don't think you can mend broken hearts.

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Soossie

@BittersweetPotato

It is possible dear potato … one just need to trust again and the other needs to never betray that trust again … 🤗🤗🌹

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BittersweetPotato · 31-35, F

@Soossie I guess potato hearts may be less responsive then 🥔🥺

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littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M

No but I am alive 🙂

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Soossie

@littlepuppywantanewlife

Good to hear ….

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littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M

@Soossie Thank you ma'am.

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turnedtostone · 56-60, F

Yes,but it was my own.

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Soossie

@turnedtostone

Glad to hear ….

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RuyLopez · 56-60, M

No.

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Soossie

@RuyLopez

No you didn’t succeed?? Or no, you didn’t want to mend their heart??

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RuyLopez · 56-60, M

@Soossie No I didn't succeed. Generally, my experience has been that it is best to end things definitively and let the person move on.

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Soossie

@RuyLopez

Exactly … A clean cut is my way of leaving and moving on … 🤗

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GoToTheCompound

Not really, I tried but it became too annoying especially after realizing the person I was with deserved to get their heart broken and they technically broke my heart first on low

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Soossie

@GoToTheCompound

Sorry to hear …

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GoToTheCompound

@Soossie No worries. It’s all a lesson I needed to learn about not giving your love to somebody that doesn’t deserve it. It’s a lesson I’m still currently learning