Just pouring my heart out!
I usually remain calm and compose. However right now I am going through a tough time. This might be 3rd time in my life when I going through tough times. My family doesn't like my wife. I think this is mainly due to insecurity. It is quite common. There might be some other issues too but I think it is mainly due to insecurity. It is very difficult for me to even write about my parents that they are causing stress in my life. I know there are somethings which they might not like about my wife. It is very common. But they are exaggerating things.
It is painful for me to realize that they don't even mind compromising my happiness instead of showing maturity. I think they are not even know why they are behaving like this. But I can see and understand that it is mainly due to insecurity. I think it is not of much use if I tell them that they are doing it because of their security. People generally don't understand themselves when it comes to such matters.
My wife is quiet type. She is reasonable but sometimes she shows little bit of adamant behavior. But it is not of such extent that it can cause so much problem. They sometimes try to find faults and exaggerate things.
My sister recently visited me, and she is also not very mature. She is very hyper. Some event happened , which is not that a big thing. However, it became very big, and now we are not talking to each other.
I am not able to focus on my career. it is very strange to realize that sometimes parents can behave like this. I also like most people don't introspect about themselves (not saying that I am super matured or saint).
I also believe that they are not busy enough. They need to engage themselves in some activities so that they stop feeling insecure and stop trying to control our life.
I don't know what specifically to do now. As of now I am thinking to just keep quiet and write here or somewhere just to pour my heart out.
It is painful for me to realize that they don't even mind compromising my happiness instead of showing maturity. I think they are not even know why they are behaving like this. But I can see and understand that it is mainly due to insecurity. I think it is not of much use if I tell them that they are doing it because of their security. People generally don't understand themselves when it comes to such matters.
My wife is quiet type. She is reasonable but sometimes she shows little bit of adamant behavior. But it is not of such extent that it can cause so much problem. They sometimes try to find faults and exaggerate things.
My sister recently visited me, and she is also not very mature. She is very hyper. Some event happened , which is not that a big thing. However, it became very big, and now we are not talking to each other.
I am not able to focus on my career. it is very strange to realize that sometimes parents can behave like this. I also like most people don't introspect about themselves (not saying that I am super matured or saint).
I also believe that they are not busy enough. They need to engage themselves in some activities so that they stop feeling insecure and stop trying to control our life.
I don't know what specifically to do now. As of now I am thinking to just keep quiet and write here or somewhere just to pour my heart out.
