Do you feel i messed up and made her uncomfortable that day by giving her chocolate?

I posted here on Tuesday, how I gave my crush Anshika a Snickers chocolate. She is in my class where I started going for preparation of upcoming exams to get into an MBA B School. We are both 22 year olds. I was pretty shy that day to give her the chocolate but my friends were with me and I finally gave her the chocolate. She did smile and thanked me and we did a handshake but for the past 2 days she isn't saying me hi or anything. Usually she used to initiate convos with me or at least say me hi but she isn't even saying me hi and I am still shy to initiate any talks with her. Is she really angry on me that I gave her chocolate that day? Whats worse is i see her talking with her male friends and I feel sad. Did I really mess up? It sucks being a shy introvert honestly. I have 0 confidence to even say her a hi on my own.

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Boundsoul · F

Simple work on yourself first as it sounds like you have some self esteem issues
Ask yourself
If you do get a girlfriend how will you cope? Will it last if you are so low in confidence?
If you get resentful that she has male friends will you become jealous and controlling?

Heroisthebest24 · 22-25, M

@Boundsoul Actually i never had a girlfriend so idk. I am 22 and already feeling running out of time due to the lack of experience in relationships. I am still shy so idk whether it will last or not. I am not resentful of her having male friends. I am just scared that what if she goes for either of them as they are more confident and much less shy than me.

Boundsoul · F

@Heroisthebest24 you need to work on that first or you won't make any relationship work

Heroisthebest24 · 22-25, M

@Boundsoul maybe. Btw how old are you? Would you have dated a shy guy like me if suppose you knew me in person?

Boundsoul · F

@Heroisthebest24 18 and honestly no shyness is a red flag for me as it usually leads to jealousy and having to hold their hand through the relationship