I just told my dad how I remember everything

It was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done in my life.

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BreadWarlock · 31-35, M

I hope the conversation you had with your dad helped

HermannFegelein · 26-30, M

@BreadWarlock it kind of did but I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t scared. It was while we were driving in his car. I was a passenger as I confronted him with no escape. I wanted to say more but I knew I was at disadvantage so I didn’t.

BreadWarlock · 31-35, M

@HermannFegelein confronting someone about anything can always be scary. It's awesome you had the strength to say and speak what you did.

HermannFegelein · 26-30, M

@BreadWarlock thank you for hearing me out. Really, I mean it.

I just feel like maybe I made a mistake or like I shouldn’t have done it the way I did but I had to. I was relapsing on alcohol any time he asked me to hang out.

I had to tell him to stay away from me for good. And it hurt, it really fucking hurt because that was my dad.

BreadWarlock · 31-35, M

@HermannFegelein no problem my man. You did the right thing because at some point you have to put you first. And I want you to know that you're going to be ok. And I want you to tell yourself that. That you're going to be ok. If you ever need to chat hit me up whenever.