The reason why it can be pretty problematic if Aishu saw my message in which I asked her out. Do you agree too?

In my previous posts, I shared that I asked out my childhood friend Aishu for a coffee on 6th May 2023 via Instagram. She is 21 now turning 22 after 3 months and I am also 22 now. She isn't that active on Instagram so she still didn't see the message and reply to it yet. I am still waiting for her reply. But it can get problematic if she sees the message. Thats because in 2008, when me and my parents newly came to our city Bangalore, we used to live as rent in a house and Aishu's parents were the owner of that house and we used to live on the top floor and had to pay rent to her parents. In 2011, my parents bought a new apartment so we came to another area of our city. So if my parents came to know I tried asking her out, my mom would scold me. Plus after seeing the message, she can tell about it to her mom too and its possible that my mom probably follows her mom too so she might tell my mom about it so I am really worried about it.