Life is teaching me a lot

Now that my ex been locked in jail for the last couple months I been able to see my daughter and was told from her mouth that her dad was bad mouthing me, he told me I could never live with my daughter. Yet what happened this week I was able to get my daughter to live with , her dads attitude change because I actually had the time to speak to a lawyer and they gave me some insight. I’m so mad I had to keep going through this but I’m happy my ex is in jail and I can focus on the important things because now I have to physically show for court that I’m mentally stable and responsible enough to take my daughter to school everyday , I’m also looking for counseling because It did take me some time to understand why do I keep attracting abusive men .. I’m not setting boundaries also because I look a lot younger than my age, im attracting weird men, this is why I put makeup on and also carry myself a certain way. I know it’s all about how you carry yourself