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If people were messing with you and you told them to stop and the cops put you into a hospital for a week. How would you get over something like that?

I've had to deal with being homeless and finding different jobs. My life has been hell for a few years and these people won't admit to doing anything wrong. What would you do? Some of the people were once my friends, co-workers and family.
deadgerbil · 22-25
I would go no contact with them
@deadgerbil i've gone no contact with everyone, not even eye contact. I don't know why I have to live like this because of someone else's game.
specman · 46-50, M
Personally me I would hug closer to Jesus! I know that’s not a popular idea nowadays. But he said he would bare our burden. It has worked for me!
@specman I know somepeople might think it's BS because I also write poems and stuff on here and I can be trollish in my comments and attitude towards people. But I honestly mean no harm in them sometimes I just joke around. But the things i put under what i'm struggling with are real and I don't understand why people say I just have to live with it.
TurtleDreams · 22-25, F
I wouldnt expect anybody to get over that. Thats just too much to comprehend because they made it look like you were the problem. I've had this happen to me before.

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I would find a way to cope. I've never been in a hospital you're talking about, but I have had everyone disown me in the past and I was homeless. I turned to alcohol and cigarettes to cope (I was a teenager) and self-harm.
@Nihiless Yes i've talked to the police they haven't done anything.
@LostNForgotten and legal action?
@Nihiless It's hard to take legal action when i don't have proof. My proof is that these people know what they did. I don't understand how someone would think stalking was ok.
Oh my gosh, you need to forge a new life for yourself, move away, be brave please, it isn't going to be easy but it will be worth it 💙
@AthenaArena They messed with me and then deny doing anything. And I have to live with the consequences. How can I just move on from that? I moved on after they did it three years ago and they did it again. How do they get away with something like that. I've been in a lot of pain, physically and mentally because of this.

I understand that you are just giving the best advice but i did move and i did try to get back on my feet. Why should I have to keep getting menial jobs because someone thought it was funny playing with me. I understand if it was just some online joking around like you sometimes see on here, but this was my real life.
@LostNForgotten you need to be stronger and believe in yourself.

You shouldn't be around those people, you are capable of looking after yourself and being your own person, by the sounds of things, you owe these people nothing, they are disrespectful towards you

Why stick around for more abuse?

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