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My sister & her baby's father broke up

I haven't been on my phone for days so I missed all the calls of her trying to get ahold of me 🥺 I hate not being here when she needs me. When she calls me I know it's bad.. because she's usually afraid to tell me about her relationship problems because she's worried I'll go handle it myself.

So that's how she spent her New Year. Packing all her things & becoming a single mom now 😔

My poor sis... She's so strong but she never gets a break either in life.
I stayed up with her last night just talking for a while. I wish there was more I could do.

Her baby's father apparently started the fight just so he could kick her out & get back with his ex. From the story, I could tell the whole incident was planned on his part. He even called his ex who showed up next trying to pick a fight with my sister.

My sister's a fighter (I taught her long ago), & the old her would've beat that girls ass without hesitation. But she was wise & walked away with her baby 🙏 I know that was hard for her to walk away from.

So my Tia was calling me nonstop wanting me to go over there & pistol whip him or beat his ass 🙄
First of all, I'm not that stupid anymore.
& Second, that's still my nieces father. I would never wanna hurt him because that would hurt her too. If he was abusing my sister or something that'd be different. Everyone knows I'd kill for that. But I'm not gonna go & beat someone's ass just for being an idiot... That's on him. I'm not going to jail over an idiot.

I just feel bad I wasn't here for her sooner 😒 this is the second time recently that she called me when she needed me & I missed it.

Anyway, at least I'm hanging out with my sister's doggo rn. I saved his ass from a house fire years ago as a puppy, so we go waaay back lol
you're a good dude. i feel ya. my daughter struggled with her bf for years, she finally got tired of his lazy no good ass and kicked him out. i know she felt bad about doing it but she came to a breakin point and he wasnt gettin any better. it sucks to see the people you love deal with bullshit.
ChiefJustWalks · 26-30
@YourMomsSecretCrush i imagine that's gotta be hard as hell having to watch your daughter deal with that 🙏 you're a good dude too.
The old me used to fight my sisters bf's or scare them off if they treated her wrong... But in time you realize you can't do that shit. You can't solve their problems for them, they have to reach that point on their own. All you can do is support & be there
SW-User
@YourMomsSecretCrush Yea, that's bad but here's one for you. I have a son like your daughter's bf and you can imagine how that is going between him, me and my wife.
Quimliqer · 70-79, M
You’re wise in the decisions you’ve made!! Cooler heads prevail!!
ChiefJustWalks · 26-30
@Quimliqer thanks man, but yeah I used to be quick to fight or react. As you get older you learn a lot. In my eyes now, unless someone is in real danger, it's not worth it

 
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