I wish I could be alpha male or something better like limitless..

@Beautifullyderanged I have tried to change myself alot. I tried many aspects and been very nice and gentle to everyone to find love. But it's really hard.

@littlepuppywantanewlife you might be trying to change yourself too much. Are you happy with who you are as a person? A bit of change is ok but you need to like who you first, if you change too much that you dont even recognise yourself then others won't see you for who you are either.

@Beautifullyderanged I am going through a hard time. Yes In a way I am trying to change myself completely.

@littlepuppywantanewlife why do you want to change yourself, do you think not being you will make things easier?

@Beautifullyderanged Yes. I have been hated and made fun upon at work. People have used me for there gains. Also I want to Stop drinking alcohol. I want to change many things and try new things.

@littlepuppywantanewlife trying new things sounds good, as does cutting back on the alcohol but i think instead of changing who you are, you should concentrate on improving who you are. Every person had their own strengths and weaknesses and its better to improve your weaknesses then change who you are as the 'new' you might not actually turn out how you want, whereas when you improve on who you are you get to see that, see how looking after yourself more and working on being better can bring on the changes you want.

@Beautifullyderanged ok. I will try that. It was nothing was changing for me and I felt down internally. That's is the reason I made this post. But thank you and you sound very wise. 🤗

@littlepuppywantanewlife its just my experience thats all 🙂

@Beautifullyderanged There are many things I will share with you later. Have a great new year celebrations. 🙂

@littlepuppywantanewlife you too 🙂