Something I've noticed online and in real life.. people seem to like it when someone has an edge and is slightly obnoxious..

Whenever someone offended me here, I'd look them up. They'd always seem to have lots of users mentioning them. Seems that if you're not making a big noise and you're rarely mean you're ignored/nobody takes any notice.

It only works if you have an edge from the beginning. If you develop the edge after being shy and timid, people won't like that because they've already labelled you.

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BlueVeins · 22-25

IDK, I think a lot of the trick is to not care, or at least not act like you care. Some amount of bullying helps, you just have to learn to recognize legitimate targets.

being · 36-40, F

Sometimes politeness undermines honesty. That's why. I know because many times I am more polite and less truthful. Many times I play the role of the space holder, the person giving space so others can unfold. You can't expect to do that and be popular, unless you get persistent on doing it. And take breaks to play your own part too..

JohnnySpot · 56-60, M

The squeaky wheel gets the grease.

PoetryNEmotion · F

Seems being mean or cruel is more admired these days. I don't know why. Insensitive hearts? A need to follow the masses? I am who I am. I am my words. Others may do as they please. I do me.

SW-User

Negativity or weakness will respond to the same. Take it as a positive if you are neither.

Miram · 31-35, F

I think you excessively compare yourself to other people and the amount of attention they get.

This place validates anything and anyone with an F tag. Even the pedos..

So it is not the place to use to draw self conclusions and behavioral patterns.

Unless the desired sample is creeps and what motivates them

Bang5luts · M

I don't know that's accurate. I don't see it that way. I was stand offish when I joined and now I have developed my online persona and still stay true to myself in and around all the cute and silliness

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