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I personally would have regretted never having children, I have an overwhelming need to nurture and I think I would have been unfulfilled if I hadn't had kids.
Getting married is a totally different thing, it's not necessary to be married in order to have kids, there are lots of children in the foster care system who need a safe place and plenty of care and nurture! - look at marriage as strengthening the love and commitment you have with each other and definitely don't settle just because you want a baby - that would be crazy and only breed misery and resentment if he isn't the one for you!
Getting married is a totally different thing, it's not necessary to be married in order to have kids, there are lots of children in the foster care system who need a safe place and plenty of care and nurture! - look at marriage as strengthening the love and commitment you have with each other and definitely don't settle just because you want a baby - that would be crazy and only breed misery and resentment if he isn't the one for you!