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Punches · 46-50, F
You are going through some tough times right now as you have expressed in several threads.
What each of us needs to do is learn to care for ourselves enough to carry on and find things we enjoy. At times we all feel like we do not matter to anyone. But do we matter to ourselves? One's self is the main person we should matter to.
There is speculation of heaven, hell, reincarnation, nothingness, or whatever after we die.
All we know for fact though is we are here right now, no clue for how long, and we have but one life.
What do you want to do tomorrow? No need to answer on here but just think, what to do tomorrow that will make tomorrow worth it? Rest up? Start a hobby? Drink a 40 and hit the 420? Hang out with someone? Talk to strangers about life?
When people die, those who knew them grieve for a couple days and then go on with their lives. People do not seem to care for others. That is why we must care for ourselves. In your case, assuming nothing happens, you have a good 50 years to enjoy life as much as possible.
Hang in there. Be your own best friend. No one can care about us as much as we can care for ourselves.
What each of us needs to do is learn to care for ourselves enough to carry on and find things we enjoy. At times we all feel like we do not matter to anyone. But do we matter to ourselves? One's self is the main person we should matter to.
There is speculation of heaven, hell, reincarnation, nothingness, or whatever after we die.
All we know for fact though is we are here right now, no clue for how long, and we have but one life.
What do you want to do tomorrow? No need to answer on here but just think, what to do tomorrow that will make tomorrow worth it? Rest up? Start a hobby? Drink a 40 and hit the 420? Hang out with someone? Talk to strangers about life?
When people die, those who knew them grieve for a couple days and then go on with their lives. People do not seem to care for others. That is why we must care for ourselves. In your case, assuming nothing happens, you have a good 50 years to enjoy life as much as possible.
Hang in there. Be your own best friend. No one can care about us as much as we can care for ourselves.
ChiefJustWalks · 26-30
@Punches indeed 👌 & I'm glad you kept your pfp because I wouldn't have recognized you otherwise 😅
Lifes too long though lol I hate thinking about how much time I have left 😂
Lifes too long though lol I hate thinking about how much time I have left 😂
@ChiefJustWalks I think life is going unbelievably fast. There are many people on this planet that wish they were your age and had more time left. Have fun with your life and get creative. There's really plenty to do if you make a list. No need to get in a hurry because after this life is past, we live on for eternity, but we want to live on an eternity in the right place and God's word says that eternity and himself are definitely real. He didn't leave us to guess. And he came to prove it. Over 500 people witnessed his Ascension into heaven to go back to his Heavenly Father, after he rose from the dead, so that's something to think about. There are many things you can do that bring joy. Most of all, you can do like I did and recreate yourself when the occasion calls for it. It is fun! And you can teach yourself to play the guitar or you can go crazy and make some beautiful colors in painting your bedroom or something I mean there's always something wonderful to do and the most wonderful feeling is when you're helping other people. That gives us purpose as well.