why do some men not initiate

It's really frustrating. I been with my husband for four years and I can literally count on one hand how many times he's initiated. I can't help but feel a little unhappy. I have never experienced this with anyone. How do I deal with this because I am getting really fed up with my marriage.

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Quoththeraven

It's a very good possibility he has low testosterone levels. They may be low naturally or from masturbating. There are tests that can be done and therapies to remedy this. Has he had a vasectomy?

DidIHurtYourFeelings · F

I don't think he's doing himself cause he does always say yes to sex. And we're never apart. But I am thinking maybe low t