My Girlfriend
AITA?
I think it's time for me to split up with her, been with her for round 5 years now. I never truly grew to love her, yes I like her but love... no. All the way back in second and third year of my degree she forced herself to be in my dormatory (we were in the same university halls), I told her multiple times to please stay in her own room but she did not listen at all. I'm a guy who prefers to be alone quite often, but from then we were together 24/7 which I was not a fan of at all. But she is epileptic and she is not taking any medication for it at all, so I feel like a nanny than her boyfriend.
At this point I should of told her I did not want to be with her anymore but fastfoward a couple of months? idk, I stopped doing archery and going to the gym cause I have to revolve my schedule around my girlfriend, I could not have any time to myself for just incase if she had a sezure.
She got a flat with the inheritance money that she got. Tbh thinking to myself if I'm able to love her then if we moved in together.... I should mention that since my parents divorce my dad is giving me money to live until I can sustain myself. and she is getting disability allowence from the government, She is wanting to make an arts business, while also wanting to write a book, which of course I fully support, but I have not seen any progress for 3 years for her art business at all. She is heavily reliant on her dad and me for doing things.... I just wish she could be more independent. But she always has an excuse for everything that happens and blames everything else
Recent times: I look around for jobs I got one and that failed, so I managed to get onto streaming online for Twitch, but because I have to revolve around her, I could not stream as along as I wanted, the hours I wanted to while also not able to collab with other streamers. I have tried talking to her about it all but like I said she always has an excuse for it. So... I think it's finally time to break it off with her, Her dasd is trying to get a second place so she can rent out this current place
I think it's time for me to split up with her, been with her for round 5 years now. I never truly grew to love her, yes I like her but love... no. All the way back in second and third year of my degree she forced herself to be in my dormatory (we were in the same university halls), I told her multiple times to please stay in her own room but she did not listen at all. I'm a guy who prefers to be alone quite often, but from then we were together 24/7 which I was not a fan of at all. But she is epileptic and she is not taking any medication for it at all, so I feel like a nanny than her boyfriend.
At this point I should of told her I did not want to be with her anymore but fastfoward a couple of months? idk, I stopped doing archery and going to the gym cause I have to revolve my schedule around my girlfriend, I could not have any time to myself for just incase if she had a sezure.
She got a flat with the inheritance money that she got. Tbh thinking to myself if I'm able to love her then if we moved in together.... I should mention that since my parents divorce my dad is giving me money to live until I can sustain myself. and she is getting disability allowence from the government, She is wanting to make an arts business, while also wanting to write a book, which of course I fully support, but I have not seen any progress for 3 years for her art business at all. She is heavily reliant on her dad and me for doing things.... I just wish she could be more independent. But she always has an excuse for everything that happens and blames everything else
Recent times: I look around for jobs I got one and that failed, so I managed to get onto streaming online for Twitch, but because I have to revolve around her, I could not stream as along as I wanted, the hours I wanted to while also not able to collab with other streamers. I have tried talking to her about it all but like I said she always has an excuse for it. So... I think it's finally time to break it off with her, Her dasd is trying to get a second place so she can rent out this current place
