Sighhhhh so I've had to cut someone off today
Theyd constantly project their negative thoughts and beliefs on me, accuse me of lying, cause drama, blow up on me, it felt like they were always sabotaging our friendship. They had to be the victim all the time, they'd make something up if nothing was wrong.
I realise I was far too nice to them, I like to give people chances but that was silly. I finally just told them I'm not a punching bag for their projections and problems, and I don't wanna speak to them anymore. I can't like somebody who actively goes out of their way to make me dislike them.
It's sorta sad because I liked em but they obviously don't like themselves, and I can't fix that. Why can I never meet people who don't have issues 😑
I realise I was far too nice to them, I like to give people chances but that was silly. I finally just told them I'm not a punching bag for their projections and problems, and I don't wanna speak to them anymore. I can't like somebody who actively goes out of their way to make me dislike them.
It's sorta sad because I liked em but they obviously don't like themselves, and I can't fix that. Why can I never meet people who don't have issues 😑