I just learned my lesson today

I should have learnt this lesson decades ago. Nobody cares about you more than your own parents. I really should have before 10 years, there was my friend, I felt bad for her that she lost her mother in young age so I tried to do everything to make her happy. I even gave her my scooter to ride but we had a serious accident in which I was going to lose my legs, I told doctors during the operation theatre that she have no any mistakes and all. Operation was going well and everything went good but I have to admitted to hospital for 2 months along the physical pain and everything. There was my bestfriend from school from whom I lost contact but she came to visit me daily even in hospital and in house and she seems really sad for my situation but the one whom I thought bestfriend didn't even visited me often and now she is out of contact but my bestfriend gets angry with me why I am not online always if I get offline for long period. It is same in my husband case. We had an arranged marriage but he lied about it lump sum of debt. I managed to clear more than 12000$ of their debts in one year and right now I have managed to save around 15000 $ for our future emergencies but still he wants more from me to do. I have also so much desires, I am not born to be responsible for other, I am a individual with own thinkings and needs. I am not born to fulfill other wishes. Seriously God I am not only born to fulfill other wishes because I have my own wishes.