Caring
Only logged in members can reply and interact with the post.
Join SimilarWorlds for FREE »

What do you do with all the love you have for someone who is no longer in your life?

Either through death, break-ups or estrangement.
Volunteerism sometimes helps. That’s partly what I threw myself into.
dontbekoi · 36-40, F
@bijouxbroussard Isn't it amazing how giving your time to others helps to heal your soul? It's like ... magic 😊
@dontbekoi When I was widowed it did help me work through it, being around other people.
You don’t stop loving those you truly loved.
dontbekoi · 36-40, F
@CookieCrumbs I believe that 100%. I have found it curious when some people have to turn love into hatred in order to "get over" that person they love.
@dontbekoi
You may not want to see them ever again because you don’t want o be reminded of the pain they caused you. But you don’t just turn off the genuine love you once felt for them. If you truly loved them, that is.
If it’s through death then I’m sure I’d reminisce and remember the times fondly. If it’s a break up then either you’re happy to move on or accept you’ve lost your value, but in either case the love will dissolve
eyeno · M
Give it to All that I meet...,

@eyeno I believe that, my friend. 🤗
eyeno · M
@bijouxbroussard
SW-User
Put it into other things worth while
dontbekoi · 36-40, F
@SW-User That is very helpful and productive 😊 I do that too.
Vin53 · M
Anti-depressants for the very first time in my life.
I grieve for a while and after that I carry that love within my heart with respect, calm and peaceful...
dontbekoi · 36-40, F
@Soossie That's what I try to do too 😊 I call it loving them from afar.
@dontbekoi

Good way to call it.... 🙏🙏
TexChik · F
I continue to love them as I remember them and quietly mourn their passing.
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
Journal, turn that love towards kind actions and compassion for myself.
Diotrephes · 70-79, M
@dontbekoi
What do you do with all the love you have for someone who is no longer in your life?
Either through death, break-ups or estrangement.

As it says in Sirach =

"Sirach 30:21-23 (CEB) = 21 Don’t let grief take you over,
and don’t distress yourself on purpose.
22 A joyful heart means life
for a human being,
and a person’s rejoicing
provides long life.
23 Distract yourself, cheer yourself up,
and keep grief far away from you
because grief has destroyed many,
and there’s no benefit in it.

Sirach 38:16-23 (CEB)= 16 My child, let your tears flow for the dead;
as one who is suffering terribly,
give voice to your sorrow.
Lay out their bodies in accordance
with their wishes,
and don’t neglect their burial.
17 Let your crying be bitter
and express your sorrow fervently,
and make your mourning
worthy of them.
Mourn for one day or two
so that there can be no criticism,
and then be comforted from your grief.
18 Too much grief can lead to death,
and grief in one’s heart
will sap one’s strength.
19 Grief also lingers in misery,
and the life of the poor
is a curse upon the heart.
20 Don’t give your heart over to grief;
stay away from it,
remembering your own end.

21 Don’t forget that there’s no coming back;
you won’t do them any good,
and you will hurt yourself.
22 Remember their sentence,
because it’s yours also:
“Yesterday it was I, and today it’s you!”
23 When the dead are at rest,
put their memory to rest,
and be comforted for them
when their spirit has left."
Vin53 · M
....so, what was that middle part again?


@Diotrephes
Diotrephes · 70-79, M
@Vin53
....so, what was that middle part again?

What middle part?
Vin53 · M
Where fathers needn't suffer the loss of their only child.

@Diotrephes
Vin53 · M
When the person is your child, there's no recovery.
@Vin53 Indeed. I’m so sorry. 🥺
icedsky · 51-55, M
Its been 11 years and I still haven't figured it out.
PraiseBeToYevon · 41-45, F
You just love them. And move forward. Sometimes it hurts and sometimes you remember and it makes you happy. Life goes on
I direct it towards food that goes into my mouth and ends up as rolls. 🐷
ginnyfromtheblock · 26-30, F
distribute it evenly among the rest
@ginnyfromtheblock 🤔 For that You ought to be brilliant at Math/s.
Tastyfrzz · 61-69, M
The dog is getting extra attention.
dontbekoi · 36-40, F
@Tastyfrzz Lucky puppy! 😊
Dan193 · 31-35, M
Give it to gourself
@Dan193 👓
LunarOrbit · 56-60, M
Grief-Love with no place to go
HikingMan · 51-55, M
You carry it with you like a cross...
Until you start to heal and move forward.
Then you either remember it fondly or regret the making of such memories....

Or, at least that's what I tend to do....
Its hard. I wish I could explain how things become for me when I fall in love with someone who kicks me out of her life. Its been consistent with me so I just know how to react anymore
HikingMan · 51-55, M
[media=https://youtu.be/PnjwdrZ2Gqg]
BeJeweled · F
I miss the ones who died terribly but dont miss any ex loves. As for estrangements they are not missed at all.
This comment is hidden. Show Comment
REMsleep · 41-45, F
By being true to the love that they had for you and you for them. Devoting yourself to being the best person that you can do and filling your life with new opportunities to love and support others.
SW-User
Becomes an emotional wound.
That needs to heal.
I’m still trying to figure it out
JustNik · 51-55, F
I just love the memory of them.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
It's disappears with time.
Set it free
Share it with the world 🗺
I used to make Caramel Vanilla Custard out of an essential part of it in the Corona times and the left over part was used for garnishing with nuts n more nuts n yet More nuts.

I might make some next week again. Only for self.
exchrist · 31-35
I send those that are still living messages of peace and to be free of pain and suffering and the causes of pain and suffering, To them and theirs'
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
I give it to someone who deserves it. I can't say that I "love" any of my exes. That's in the past and is staying there.
SW-User
Nothing. It's just there... no direction to go.

 
Post Comment