I would always choose to free myself.
It is so wrong to tell that a daughter must be a follower, to be always obedient.. I already did fulfill my obligations. I just choose the way I want to live. My life is still decent and other people don’t matter, and those who matter to you just keep on wanting to wait for your life to ruin.. I feel like forgetting who they were. Why do people have to define success based on how they want you to be. I was so thankful I left the place I couldn’t experience a much better life, a better understanding of myself and those around me… I can so much see of their attitude towards life. How flimsy! How ignorantly without them knowing they punish themselves for things they thought would go in their favor, no matter how long they waited and still would wait for more lol where in fact their not doing anything to change their lives for better.. God has given us sight, mobility and a mind to think what is good to do… Sometimes there are people you just meant to leave and would not want to go but in the place they are right now.