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Out living our ancestors

This week I passed a significant milestone. I passed the age my dad died at. I'd had the date in my head for some time.

My dad outlived my uncle by a couple of months. Looking back over our family tree no male antecedent had made it as far as dad. Grandad, greet uncles, great great grandads etc all gone often well before the 59 years 10 months and 4 days dad got to.

My late cousin made 62 before he sadly passed away from cancer early in the covid-19 lockdown. My brother is setting a family all comers record now above 63 despite his internal defib causing some hospitalisations.

Now I'm passed Dad it is weird - how the hell have I managed to get here?

As they say "carpe diem".
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JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
It is a weird feeling being older than your Dad! My dad died young at 44. So weird that I'm older than he was.
windinhishair · 61-69, M
@JimboSaturn I would think it gives you more appreciation for how young he was and what he was doing at the time.
JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
@windinhishair It does! I feel sorry for him. I would have felt ripped off if I was him. I fantasize about going back in time and meeting him as the man I am now. We never had a full on adult conversation since I was 13 when he died.
windinhishair · 61-69, M
@JimboSaturn That is sad, but I am sure he would be very proud of the man you have become.
JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
@windinhishair Thanks, I hope so.
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@JimboSaturn I feel you! Mine died at 26. It was a big thing, especially in my brother's mind, to pass that age