Is 36/37 too old to have kids?

I know kids themselves don’t ruin your life but…. like I feel they trap you and you can’t do anything with them; they also waste all your money. I know you still can do enjoyable things but it’s so much more difficult. I want to travel, spend money on MYSELF, buy a house, have a good time with my bf, and have a stable and good paying job before I even THINK about having a child. I’m 22 now but just thinking about the future 😂

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Sazzio · 36-40, M

Don't blame u we all do dwell on the future.

No 36/37 is fine. I read in NHS a diary (Emma's diary) that a woman was 40 and expecting. Emma diary is available to pregnant women and has accounts of all women going / gone through 9 months of pregnancy.

I think other factors are involved like eating meat you're most likely to feel less pain in 9 months and possibly normal delivery(?) But about pain n normal delivery is my own opinion, mainly formed on wha I seen around me.

I am happy with first born at 33. Am 53 he will be 20!