Is 36/37 too old to have kids?

I know kids themselves don’t ruin your life but…. like I feel they trap you and you can’t do anything with them; they also waste all your money. I know you still can do enjoyable things but it’s so much more difficult. I want to travel, spend money on MYSELF, buy a house, have a good time with my bf, and have a stable and good paying job before I even THINK about having a child. I’m 22 now but just thinking about the future 😂

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RubySoo · 56-60, F

36 is not too old at all. What clear is you dont want them now, and right now thats all that matters. Theres pros and cons to gaving them late and early.
Heck, ive known plenty of peeps adamant they didnt want kids only to suddenly, mid thirties want one NOW! Then worry it might not he so easy to fall pregnant!
When/ if you decide you want a child, you'll know.....dont rush it. Nothing wrong in taking care of your own wants and needs and having your kids when yr older.....and nowt wrong with being childless if thats what you wish.

RubySoo · 56-60, F

@RubySoo thats what i said....lol. 🙂