Is 36/37 too old to have kids?

I know kids themselves don’t ruin your life but…. like I feel they trap you and you can’t do anything with them; they also waste all your money. I know you still can do enjoyable things but it’s so much more difficult. I want to travel, spend money on MYSELF, buy a house, have a good time with my bf, and have a stable and good paying job before I even THINK about having a child. I’m 22 now but just thinking about the future 😂

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OhIsMe · 41-45, M

That's how old we were when ours was born. It's pretty good. There are challenges whatever age you are, we both find that physically it's very draining to carry him around or do all the necessary rocking and back rubbing. Plus lack of sleep is a killer.