You need to first realise where your priorities lie. Finding a job and Bills come first? Then u need to put friends on hold.
No life stays the same. In the next 3 years yer life will dramatically change.
2012 at 23 my life was quite a mess. Single, rent so I was stuck in a dead end job 8 to 5pm (average). In the evening I would do activities, hang out with mates and learning to play the Indian instrument, thabla for 5 years before calling it quits (made about 1k from it in 4 years, when playing at Indian sermons). I would cycle in the sunshine n hang out with mates. Passed time on Xbox 360. However my work life was proper poo.
2019 got married. Seeing mates was hard, no more xbox in my life I chose t stop playing.
2020 did an SIA Course for security jobs.
2021 got a new house n wife became pregnant.
2022 got a security job and my son is 1.5 months old. No time for mates and all hobbies (drawing, studying History n Geography) are put on hold.
What am getting at, have patience and faith. Life changes and we can only control ever so much. Be happy, accept, move forth n go with the flow.
Best of luck.
