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August 3: Seasons

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August 3: Seasons

The other day I had the thought that I have more years behind me than ahead of me. I don't have any regrets about my life, and if I'm lucky, I still have a few decades to go before I shuffle off this mortal coil. However, it's sobering to realize you've lived longer than you have left to live, at least in this lifetime.

I've led a good life so far, and I've been lucky in many ways. I love to learn, and my life has been all about learning. I hope it continues to be. Even the difficult times have been learning experiences. I don't like to stagnate. I get bored easily and embrace change and new opportunities and challenges. I think you have to learn to make the best of things if you want to have any chance at happiness.

I look back on the seasons of my life, and for the most part, I smile. There have been highs and lows, but thankfully, more highs than lows and a whole lot of smooth sailing. I had a fairly happy spring, an awesome summer, and I'm enjoying autumn. I'm not quite ready for winter, but winter is coming whether we want it to or not. ;)

JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
This made me think of a Sinatra song:


🎶
When I was seventeen it was a very good year

It was a very good year for small town girls and soft summer nights

We'd hide from the lights on the village green

When I was seventeen


When I was twenty-one it was a very good year

It was a very good year for city girls who lived up the stair

With all that perfumed hair and it came undone

When I was twenty-one


Then I was thirty-five it was a very good year

It was a very good year for blue-blooded girls

Of independent means, we'd ride in limousines their chauffeurs would drive

When I was thirty-five


But now the days are short, I'm in the autumn of the year

And now I think of my life as vintage wine from fine old kegs

From the brim to the dregs, and it poured sweet and clear

It was a very good year

It was a mess of good years
🎶
ChampagneOnIce · 51-55, F
@JoyfulSilence Well, I happen to love fine wine. :) 🍷🍷
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
@ChampagneOnIce

I hope you can enjoy some.

I am drinking soda. I am at a restaurant and just had a chicken dinner.
ChampagneOnIce · 51-55, F
@JoyfulSilence We have trivia tonight, so I'll be drinking old fashioneds at the bar. (They don't have good wine, and I don't drink beer.) We'll have some good wine tomorrow evening, though. :)
Heartlander · 80-89, M
:) I love the sharp contrasts displayed in your image. Like how many October or November days started off still clutching on to Summer but turned into blizzards by supper time.

Your years ahead are likely to be your best, thanks in part to the experiences and lessons learned in the previous years; but get ready to replace your parents' generation and their thousands of supporting actors. There's a point ahead when you and your generation will completely replace them, and you will replace them one by one until they are all gone. So make the best of them while they are still alive, and try to squeeze every ounce of remaining wisdom from them before it's your turn.

We grew up in the Gulf south and even a single snowflake is an unwelcome intrusion. But later we have family in North Dakota who continuously remind us that North Dakota ranks at the top of most happiness charts. It starts with the intention to be happy.
ChampagneOnIce · 51-55, F
@Heartlander That's lovely. Thank you so much for your comment. I wish I'd learned more from my grandparents before they passed. I'm still learning from my parents.
I think you have to learn to make the best of things if you want to have any chance at happiness.

This.

This is a life lesson that we only learn through experiences at failing and succeeding, loving and losing.

We can’t control what happens to us, but we can do our best to make choices that support our happiness at that point in our lives.

Cheers to a life well lived! 🥂
ChampagneOnIce · 51-55, F
@CookieCrumbs Thank you. Yes, so true. I'm a mostly positive person, and I try to find the good. I've failed, and I've had periods of deep depression, but I've also succeeded more times than not, and there is always so much good if we let ourselves see it. Overall, I'm happy, and I am so grateful. :)

Salut, my friend! 🥂
@ChampagneOnIce
There is no perfectly happy life. If we continue to see the good and do our best to live the good in any way we can, we have already succeeded in living.
ChampagneOnIce · 51-55, F
@CookieCrumbs I think so, at least that's how I try to live. :)
HeavenBesideYou · 56-60, F
Winter always comes back around, both literally and figuratively.
ChampagneOnIce · 51-55, F
@HeavenBesideYou I’m not quite in the winter of my years, but yes, I’ve experienced the chill of winter in relationships and in weather. I prefer the weather. 😄
Champs is back!!! 🥰

Very poignant writing, my beautiful friend. Life as we know it, has been a blessed journey this far. 💞🤗 Yours is awesome since you’ve enjoyed Spring and Summer…👍🏻🎶💐
Montanaman · M
"Take what you can,
Change the Seasons...

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Simply wonderful.
ChampagneOnIce · 51-55, F
@Stillwaiting Thank you.
Freeranger · M
We all look back....no question, and evaluate our lives, but the emotion separating longevity from insanitty lies in finally putting away the yardsticks.
Rutterman · 46-50, M
What a lovely, thoughtful post. You're one heck of a good writer and that's one of the things I've always appreciated about you.

 
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