Why do doubt myself so much despite accomplishing many things in my life.

I own three small buisnesses, go to school, workout, work and help provide for my family. It's just never enough it seems. I wonder why I feel like I always have to do accomplish something yet it's never enough. I wonder why I feel stuck and anxious most of the time hiding behind a I can do it all attitude, and putting on a strong facade. Once I get home, the mask falls off and I feel the self doubt and anxiety creeping in. Sometimes that mask that falls off comes out in between my strong facade and it makes me wonder whether I am the strong facade or the self doubt and anxiety. Never shared this with anyone really. Writing this makes me feel at ease and at peace in all honesty. Any advice would suffice. Thank you <3

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It's a belief you're most likely carrying from your childhood. Where you might have been made to feel like you're not good enough. Dig deep. Because that is coming from your subconscious.
Maybe you have a perfectionist archetype too.
Maybe all of what you're doing is not aligned to what you really want to do.

thewindupbirdchronicles · 46-50, M

That's very accomplished for your age. You don't need to put on a strong facade, this isn't a facade right?

NJ2000 · 22-25, F

@thewindupbirdchronicles Can you elaborate on "this isn't a facade right?"

thewindupbirdchronicles · 46-50, M

@NJ2000 People now often present many things that are not factual or representative of their life, if you are going to school, take care of yourself, and work to help that is more then some do?

NJ2000 · 22-25, F

@thewindupbirdchronicles I see, I'll take that into account. Thank you for commenting . I appreciate it

HootyTheNightOwl

Look back into your childhood... what were your school years like for you???

AngelKrish · 26-30, M

I feel same ...i am struck... thanks for sharing here

Justenjoyit · 61-69, M

Dont forget there is no gold medal at the end

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