I have a real problem with friends in real life

I just keep pushing people away. And if I try to “learn” not to do that I just get panic attacks.
Until they are successfully pushed away and gone.
And then the panic attacks stop but then I’m left wishing I could give them a hug.
How stupid is my brain.

I want hugs

Yet the thing I’m hugging I’m allergic to.

I should just hug a tree or something.

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Bklynbadboy12 · 31-35, M

Your not allergic ot seems like you have abandonment issues so you push them away before they can leave you

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TheOrionbeltseeker · 36-40, M

@Bklynbadboy12 Would you be helpful in that?

Bklynbadboy12 · 31-35, M

@TheOrionbeltseeker Honestly i dont know but im willing to help

Carlisle · F

@Bklynbadboy12 that’s super kind but how?

SW-User

I sometimes do this too .
Mine is due to trust and abandonment issues ..

I'm sorry you struggle with this as well ..I hope it gets better for you

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SW-User

@Bklynbadboy12 not a damn thing ...i am who i am .
And just do the best i can ...that's all i can do

Bklynbadboy12 · 31-35, M

@SW-User There is nothing wrong with that we can only be what we are. But if you need a friend im here

SW-User

@Bklynbadboy12 thanks

markansas

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watch and learn . i am trying myself. mark

Carlisle · F

@markansas thank you I’ll watch this

Quetzalcoatlus · 46-50, M

Same

GLITTER · 36-40, F

Trees are pretty sweet to hug

No sweat
No awkward moment when you don’t know if you’ve hugged too long
No worrying someone is going to put their hand on your butt

Trees for prime minister ✌🏼

SW-User

🤗

Coppercoil · M

I get this too.

deathfairy ·

): idk how to help. i hope you can find a way to break this cycle.

Lilnonames · F

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