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I have a real problem with friends in real life

I just keep pushing people away. And if I try to “learn” not to do that I just get panic attacks.
Until they are successfully pushed away and gone.
And then the panic attacks stop but then I’m left wishing I could give them a hug.
How stupid is my brain.

I want hugs

Yet the thing I’m hugging I’m allergic to.

I should just hug a tree or something.
Bklynbadboy12 · 31-35, M
Your not allergic ot seems like you have abandonment issues so you push them away before they can leave you
TheOrionbeltseeker · 36-40, M
@Bklynbadboy12 Would you be helpful in that?
Bklynbadboy12 · 31-35, M
@TheOrionbeltseeker Honestly i dont know but im willing to help
Carlisle · F
@Bklynbadboy12 that’s super kind but how?
SW-User
I sometimes do this too .
Mine is due to trust and abandonment issues ..

I'm sorry you struggle with this as well ..I hope it gets better for you
SW-User
@Bklynbadboy12 not a damn thing ...i am who i am .
And just do the best i can ...that's all i can do
Bklynbadboy12 · 31-35, M
@SW-User There is nothing wrong with that we can only be what we are. But if you need a friend im here
SW-User
[media=https://youtu.be/MB5IX-np5fE]
watch and learn . i am trying myself. mark
Carlisle · F
@markansas thank you I’ll watch this
GLITTER · 36-40, F
Trees are pretty sweet to hug

No sweat
No awkward moment when you don’t know if you’ve hugged too long
No worrying someone is going to put their hand on your butt

Trees for prime minister ✌🏼
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Coppercoil · M
I get this too.
): idk how to help. i hope you can find a way to break this cycle.
Lilnonames · F
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