You BDSM people who say it's better to turn vanilla people instead of sticking to your own

@SW-User you would have it backwards, men are a lot less into then women because women are the ones reading the books about BDSM Mr. grey and making these books top sellers and then go on fantasizing about it and trying to make it reality in their life,
guys on the other hand generally dont give a shit about these books

@Chickie I think its their choice if done with consent who am I too moralize or judge someone on one aspect of their character. They could be wonderful people.

@JimboSaturn it's not okay why they push it on people, it's not okay when they try to bully people for being vanilla or brag about how much of a gross freak they are, it's not okay when they come into you PM's grooming you or trying to "turn" you "saying you're a little you just don't know it". It's not okay when they tell us we're being too sensitive when I spent the last two decades forgetting something that changed me for the rest of my life, It's more than just one person it's 90% of them

@Chickie Dark.
I approve. 😏

@Chickie